Five years ago this weekend, Jack and the Grand Blanc High School varsity baseball team were playing in a tournament in Traverse City. It was Jack’s senior year, and he had gotten off to a rough start that season. But the last couple weeks he had been hitting better and he seemed primed to finish his high school career strong. That Friday night in fact, he achieved one of his senior year goals by hitting the first home run of his high school career:
Something else happened that very same night though. Jack developed a stomach bug. He and I both did, actually. Within a couple days, I was back to 100%, but Jack wasn’t recovering. In fact, over the next couple weeks he didn’t get any better. We took him to the doctor, but it just kept hanging on. The day of his commencement ceremony, they ran some blood tests.
He graduated that night (a Thursday), followed by the all-night
graduation party at the high school. After sleeping in, he had baseball
practice on Friday, followed by a pair of games in the District Tournament on
Saturday. We held an open house celebrating him on Sunday, but throughout the whole weekend,
Jack was getting progressively weaker and his color looked terrible.
Monday morning we got the phone call that changed his life and ours. His doctor said that test results were back and we needed to take him directly to the hospital, insist that he be admitted, and not take “no” for an answer. We would soon learn that he was suffering from Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia. Just days after commencement and all the celebratory words about what the future held for these graduates, a 40-month regimen of chemotherapy would be Jack’s immediate future, and college plans were on hold for at least a year.
Fast forward to today. Erin, Caroline and I, along with Erin’s parents, sat in Millett Hall on the campus of Miami University and watched Jack graduate. Words can hardly say how proud we are of him. After having his entrance to college delayed a year by leukemia, his first semester-and-a-half were spent making monthly trips back home for chemo treatments in addition to the oral chemo he took every day. Then came COVID, and doing college remotely for over a year. Throughout this entire time, he dealt with debilitating nausea & migraines, as well as enduring the brain fog that chemo produced, but he kept on persevering.
And he didn't just squeak through. Today he graduated summa cum laude with a GPA of 3.96 and come this fall he will attend one of the top law schools in the nation at Northwestern University in Chicago! We have so many we need to thank, starting of course with God who has seen Jack (and us!) through these last five years. Thanks as well to family and friends and acquaintances and strangers who prayed for Jack and supported us all through this time.
Thanks especially to our sweet, brilliant, talented daughter Caroline, who not only had to worry about her brother, but also has had to have so much of her life take an unexpected back seat to Jack's as we labored in crisis management. Throughout it all, she has remained such a joyful, caring, thoughtful part of our family. We love her more than she can possibly imagine and couldn't possibly be more proud of her.
We also of course need to convey our thanks to Dr. Nkechi Onwuzurike and all the wonderful people at Hurley Medical Center who worked so hard to bring healing to Jack. You cared for him throughout his treatment and many of you have become dear friends to us. We know that you share in our joy for Jack at this milestone he has reached.
Thanks to Miami University and everyone there. Miami deferred Jack's acceptance (and scholarships) for a year, no questions asked. They worked with him to make sure conflicts between class schedules and treatment schedules would not be a problem. They provided him with a top-notch education on "the most beautiful campus that ever there was." Meanwhile, the Myaamia Center, the Farmer School of Business and Delta Sigma Pi business fraternity gave Jack places and people to belong to, all the while embodying Miami's motto of "Love and Honor."
Finally, we are thankful to so many others: Family members who have loved us well, friends new and old who have lent their support, individuals and organizations who have been so wonderfully generous to us throughout the last five years, notable sports figures and others who reached out to Jack with encouraging notes of support...the list could go on and on. To everyone who played a part in Jack’s story over the last five years, thank you so very much!